Mediation is an “alternative dispute resolution” process wherein a neutral and impartial third person (Mediator) assists parties in resolving disputes. The parties and their attorneys, as applicable, meet to discuss the issues associated with their individual cases. The mediator helps facilitate communication between the parties by providing a calm and respectful atmosphere so that the parties can share their information without fear of judgment or ridicule. The mediator may also, based on his or her education and experience, share information with the parties so that they may make more informed decisions about their own individual future.

Ethical rules mandate that mediators may not make decisions for the parties. Neither may the mediator exert undue influence over either party in an attempt to reach a certain goal. Rather, it is up to the parties, based on their own self-determination, to decide what they will or will not agree to. To that end, many Judicial Circuits in Florida require that all domestic relations cases go through mediation before going to the final hearing or trial. The reason is that many people who enter into an agreement through the mediation process feel better about the end result than those who have their decisions made for them by a judge or magistrate. Having the opportunity to actually be heard and know that your thoughts and feelings matter can be very healing during what is often a very difficult time.